Do Men Think THIS Is Cheating?
QUESTION: “I found out that my husband of four years has a monthly lunch with a female colleague. I know about these monthly lunches, what I didn’t know was that they used to date before we got married and they have been out of town together at conferences for 2-3 days at a time I also just learned. She is single and attractive and they communicate a LOT. My husband says it’s strictly professional, but I feel like it’s cheating me in a way. He wasn’t up front about it, but I have no proof of anything. Do men think that this is cheating in any way or...
Read MoreHow Do Men Really Feel About Friends With Benefits?
QUESTION 1: “My question is when a friend asks you out for having a sexual relationship simply nothing emotional, which is what I do accept his proposal or simply ignore it as it is wrong for a woman to leave just for fun with a man with no a relationship” - Alejandra, Age not given QUESTION 2: “I just got out of a three-year relationship. Shortly after, I reconnected with a guy friend who I have known on and off for 13 years. He told me upfront that he does not want a relationship, marriage, or kids. We have been intimate and talk frequently throughout the week by...
Read MoreDo Men Appreciate Women With Manicures and Pedicures?
QUESTION: “My question is about manicures and pedicures. Do men even notice if I get them? And if they do, do men find it unattractive if women do NOT have polished fingers and toes? It’s not like I do it for them as it’s a ritual for me anyway, but I’m curious. ” - Tara, Age 30, Single Interesting question Tara. We know that women spend hundreds of not thousands of dollars on their nails in the course of a year. And yes, you probably would get it done whether men notice or not, but do men appreciate it? And if they do, what is there preference...
Read MoreWhat Should Women Do To Make Men Less Commitment Phobic?
QUESTION: ”I’ve been dating my boyfriend for just over two years now. We agreed that after a year if we didn’t decide to marry, we should part. Here it is, another year later and still no commitment from him. I know commitments are a tricky thing and some guys want them and some don’t. But I feel my man can but what should I do to make him “get there?” - Kara, Dating, Age 34 Well, Kara, it is something lots of women inquire about: how to get your man over the hump. It is a tricky thing and the tactics for doing this have risk and reward, so we...
Read MoreDo Men Like Women To Have Male Friends?
QUESTION: ”I’ve got a ton of female friends. We go out together, party together, laugh and cry together. But it seems like my boyfriend has issues with the very few (2-3) male friends I have. Two I’ve known since high school and one is a friend of mine that I work with. He always seems to bring up that I’m spending “time” with them, even if it’s a two minute phone call or quick text. I don’t hide it from him and I tell him what I was talking about, so I’d like to know do men mind if women actually have a some male friends? -...
Read MoreHow Do Men Really Feel About In-Laws?
QUESTION: ”My mom and dad are complete polar opposites of my husband’s family. My family is loud and sometime obnoxious. His is quiet and reserved. My family drinks like crazy and always has or comes up with an excuse to have a party. His family likes small gatherings. There’s never been any issues with either of our families or it’s causing a strain in our relationships, it’s just that I get the sense that he wishes he didn’t have to deal with our craziness. But maybe all guys have problems with their in-laws or families of significant...
Read MoreDo Men Prefer Living With Women Before Marriage?
“QUESTION: I know that in this day and age relationship standards aren’t what they used to be. Rules aren’t the same. Men aren’t always the one asking for a date. We [women] don’t always wait by the phone for a call. But my boyfriend and I are thinking of living together before we get married. My mom is losing her mind about this because she thinks it’s a way for a man to ‘sample the goods’ without commitment. So I’d like you to ask men, if they prefer to live with a woman prior to marriage? Thank you.” - Diane, Age 26,...
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