Do Men Think THIS Is Cheating?
QUESTION: “I found out that my husband of four years has a monthly lunch with a female colleague. I know about these monthly lunches, what I didn’t know was that they used to date before we got married and they have been out of town together at conferences for 2-3 days at a time I also just learned. She is single and attractive and they communicate a LOT. My husband says it’s strictly professional, but I feel like it’s cheating me in a way. He wasn’t up front about it, but I have no proof of anything. Do men think that this is cheating in any way or...
Read MoreDo Men Appreciate Women With Manicures and Pedicures?
QUESTION: “My question is about manicures and pedicures. Do men even notice if I get them? And if they do, do men find it unattractive if women do NOT have polished fingers and toes? It’s not like I do it for them as it’s a ritual for me anyway, but I’m curious. ” - Tara, Age 30, Single Interesting question Tara. We know that women spend hundreds of not thousands of dollars on their nails in the course of a year. And yes, you probably would get it done whether men notice or not, but do men appreciate it? And if they do, what is there preference...
Read MoreDo Men Actually Listen?
QUESTION: “My husband and I have been married for over 18 years. Things are good and I can’t really complain, but I still feel that half of the time, he’s not paying attention. I mean, he is a good husband but I don’t think he really listens he just knows me and reacts accordingly which to his credit, he does rather well. I’d just like to have a conversation where he’s really listening and engaged. Is that too much to ask? ” - Donna, Age 42, Married What did you say Donna? Sorry, we were distracted. Just kidding. But men get this...
Read MoreWhat Should Women Do To Make Men Less Commitment Phobic?
QUESTION: ”I’ve been dating my boyfriend for just over two years now. We agreed that after a year if we didn’t decide to marry, we should part. Here it is, another year later and still no commitment from him. I know commitments are a tricky thing and some guys want them and some don’t. But I feel my man can but what should I do to make him “get there?” - Kara, Dating, Age 34 Well, Kara, it is something lots of women inquire about: how to get your man over the hump. It is a tricky thing and the tactics for doing this have risk and reward, so we...
Read MoreHow Do Men Really Feel About In-Laws?
QUESTION: ”My mom and dad are complete polar opposites of my husband’s family. My family is loud and sometime obnoxious. His is quiet and reserved. My family drinks like crazy and always has or comes up with an excuse to have a party. His family likes small gatherings. There’s never been any issues with either of our families or it’s causing a strain in our relationships, it’s just that I get the sense that he wishes he didn’t have to deal with our craziness. But maybe all guys have problems with their in-laws or families of significant...
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